Hey jerzI girls I wanted to get my story out there to you guys. So basically it was my freshman year and Iāll try to keep this as brief as possible. me and this boy Iāll call him jacob had 4th period class together I didnāt have any friends in there so for a while I just kept to myself until the teacher decide to move our seats in class so we ended up sitting right next to eachother so from there we started becoming friends. After a while he asked me out. We started dating and everything was amazing we had so much in common shared fears and life goals. i did a lot of firsts with him not anythin that involved a bed of yk what I mean but like everything else š³ so I was really serious about him I was head over heels for Jacob. Fast forward a couple months we were hitting our 4 months. I noticed he was being a little dry on his texts the night before our 4 months I didnāt think much of it until he started ignoring me and taking long to respond the whole day. It was the night of our 4 months and he texts me saying āI donāt think we should be together anymoreā my heart dropped. I couldnāt show any emotions because I was out with my family eating. so I accepted it oddly well I asked why and he said he doesnāt think heās ready. It didnāt seem right. He told me he still wanted to stay in touch because he didnāt wanna lose me completely I agreed because I didnāt want to lose him either. He told me he was going to a movie and heād text me later so then he texted me after. Iām not really sure when things started to get heated but I told him that I was with a guy and a girl friend he got upset for some reason and said he was actually at a movie with a girl the whole time. we got into an agrument where he then admitted to cheating on me and thatās why he broke up with me on our 4 months to start dating that girl. Anyway things cooled down and keep in mind itās still the same night and he starts apologizing saying he made a huge mistake and that he misses me and loves me and that he will break up with her and just kept begging me to take him back. The next week it was a school night and Jacob Texted me saying we should walk together after 4th period. I said okay. so it was the school day and we still sat right next to eachother so it was really awkward and we didnāt talk at all and the bell rang I got up and left quickly because I didnāt think I could handle walking with him so I left without him. fast forward again Iām gonna keep it short we got back together.(girls never do this getting back with a cheater is the worst idea for a number of reasons). and fast Forward again about 2 months we start getting distant Jacob had a pretty bad home life so we could never hang out and he also got his phone taken away for a long time So for some reason we just stop taking as much as a regular couple would. We ended up breaking up again but on good terms my heart was still completely shattered I remember crying in the shower, going to sleep and everything. He got a news girlfriend a bout a month later I still wasnāt over him. It hurt so much but I never showed it we never talked after that until summer break. He randomly texts me so I text back and it was all just casual talk so I thought we would just be Friends it would all be in the past. Until he asked if I miss being together because he does and that he never got over it I was confused cause I thought he had a gf. Anyway We end up talking so much one night he calls me. We talked about so much it made me miss him and ofc I started catching feelings. And one day he ghosts me like nothing. Reason #1000 why heās toxic right? I guess I was just blind and after sophomore year starts he texts me again normal at first then super flirty stuff and I wouldnāt say any flirty things back because Ik he was in another relationship and I respected that. So itās the end of sophomore year and I officially cut him off. He still had tried contacting me but I donāt answer. There is honestly sooooo much more I left out but I figured this s already a book for yāall lol but year it really hurt and left a void in my heart
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Thank you so much for taking the time to read my storyššš¦
Hey love, what you did in your situation hurt you and Iām sorry for that but it did teach you a lesson and he showed you his true colours. You donāt need him to be happy and Iām glad you left him because he is very toxic. It was dry mature of you also to respect he was in a relationship and still talk to hi as a friend after he hurt you, your very mature. Hope this situation isnāt bothering you to much. Stay focused on your future. Appreciate you sharing takes a lot to do so. If you want to talk more let me know !! :)
Youāre so right and thank you so much for taking the time to read my story and write back it means lot šš
Hey girl, first of all good for you for leaving him he didnt deserve your kind heart. I so can relate to that heart dropping feeling and it sucks like it makes you feel a certain way obviously you know. But honestly I've been through something a little similar to that and honestly us girls fr need to know our worth including my damn selfš¤¦š½āāļø. Obviously you were never the problem it was him and still is bc if he's still tryna be texting you that just shows you were nothing but good to him. I'm so sorry you had to deal with a heart break nobody ever wants that and those just freaking suck. Keep your head up gorgeousš
Omg wowš³ reading this made me upset because some girls donāt know what they do to a girl and it hurts because you seem really nice and he did that but Iām so glad you cut him off he was a toxic boy and you never needed him, you deserved betterā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø
Your so welcome honey , I'm here any time you need someone to talk too ! šOmg !! I relate to that so much I'm also using a fake name but when someone shares there number or email I tell them my real name.
I understand how you feel though its scary out here š¬but sometimes we have to take risks ! Thank you but I honestly would rather help y'all out as much as I can! šAgain I'm so proud of you!
Hey Jhene ! First of honeyyyy props šš»you left that little boy .
Sometimes we get so blinded that we have to take several falls and punches to realize but we learn from it. I know it's still hard because what he did you guys were pretty serious and that means alot because you gave him your all and he did you like that.
Mamas you've taken big steps now take a baby steps to loving yourself and knowing your worth most important letting go. Don't hold on to someone that did you like that.
I'm proud of you for letting it out even if it was a book I still don't have the guts to write my experience and if I do I delete it. But anyway this about you honey so look at your worth and love yourself bb everything going to be okay keep that crown up ! We're here for you š