Hey everybody, so it's like 12:00 where I am rn but this is just a little late night STORYTIME/HOW I STRUGGLE WITH BODY IMAGE? AND WHY? 💗
So this started last year, the body image everyone portrays is skinny and crop tops and things. I am not skinny🥺so I got bullied about it. STORYTIME: I had the biggest crush on this boy 😭but I always felt he would never like me because I wasn't skinny or I didn't look like everyone else. I sat by this boy(not my crush 😂) and he always would call me "fat hippo, blue whale, or elephant ".I would go home crying and things😔& one day my (ex-crush ) said those words too. I only ate breakfast and lunch and not dinner at home for 2 days . It became unhealthy, so I stopped and still struggled with bullying. I always kept my guard up and even my "friends "would use my insecurities as jokes. In this quarantine, I have gotten a bit bigger & I am working on it for ME, so I can LOVE MYSELF. 🥰I am still trying to love myself, but when I'm surrounded by negativity it's hard, but I keep my head up every day 💯.NEW FRIENDS ANYONE 🤩.Tiktok:2widdit._nayaa WE CAN EXCHANGE NUMBERS 😘. GOODNIGHT MY LOVES 🧚♀️ 🧚♀️!!! #JERZIGIRLS
Hey love, sorry you had to go through that. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. You are beautiful regardless of your size. It will take time but don‘t put yourself down and work towards your goals. Proud of you for not giving up💞💞
hey hun 💗,
i understand where your coming from. I’m 14 and STILL struggle with body image. It happens. It’s just a part of growing up.
Dont let anyone tell you how you should look or shouldn’t. Be happy with your body but also be healthy. All of our body’s process different and that’s what makes us, us. If you want to change, make sure its for you and not for anyone else. dont ever doubt yourself. you‘re beautiful the way your are.
With your crush, I would do the same. I thought that because I wasn’t skinny he wouldn’t like me. Because I didn’t look a certain way or dress a certain way no one would like me. I was chubby back in 4th grade. I liked this one boy but I moved. I saw him again in 6th grade and we hung out. He told me he liked me back in 4th grade And I wondered why and he’s like “because you don’t let anyone change you“. some guys are different but the right guy will love you for who you are.
6th grade came and i was “skinny”. That’s what everyone called me but I hate that label. i loved myself and that’s what matters. I was confident enough with my body and I made the dance and cheerleading team.
im happy you‘re working on yourself for you! You got this ! Like you said, keep your head held high. be confident in yourself.
much love girly !
Hey love ! Wow that's really sad to hear this generation seriously needs help! When I was 11 I never even worried about my body and how I looked. I totally understand you I'm going through the same thing and it's been very hard.
This society wants us to have a perfect body and that's not right. Honey your still very young your body is still changing everyday be patient with yourself don't beat yourself up.
Ignore those people one day they'll regret how they treated you! I was also bullied and I learned alot from it. Pick up your crown baby girl and keep going! Im so proud of you for trying to love yourself , that's a big step and it's very important. Again your so young don't beat yourself up ,live life enjoy being young don't grow up to fast.
You have a long way to go ! If you'd like you can give me your email and I can email you, You can delete the comment after.
Have a wonderful day love , I hope you slept well! Stay postive and stay safe God bless lovey ✨💛🦋