On August 27th 2020 I lost my brother in law Ralph at the young age of 37 to the horrible addiction of alcohol 😭, he got to celebrate his last birthday with family unfortunately I had to work and couldn’t be there I did text him to wish him a happy birthday. He was not only my brother in law but my best friend we shared the same zodiac sign (Virgo) we had so much in common and I loved him, he loved me as well. We both loved art that was one thing we can go on and on about. Even when his brother my husband would get into lil arguments, Id go complain to him about what I was so upset about and what do I do then he’d talk to me to calm me down. His nick name for me was “the Little one” cause I’m short. He had such a huge heart, a beautiful caring soul to anyone he met he’d lend you money if you really needed it. He cared so much about every single one of his family members and friends. especially his family he made sure everyone had food and was taken care of.
The present I’m getting him didn't come in on time 😕 for his birthday its the Clock that was made from the Salvador Dali painting The Persistence of Memory we were talking about it and he said that he regretted not getting that clock at a certain store so I looked it up and found it and his face lit up so much he was like that’s the freaking clock 🤩 so I decided to buy it so it can come in for his birthday and it’s barely coming in tomorrow August 30th 😕 Im still going to give him that clock I’ll put it in his casket so he can receive it in heaven.
Ralph fell prisoner to the horrible addiction of alcohol 15 years ago. After getting clean from certain drugs. We always tried our best to help him steer away in any way possible but he knew he was too late. He was sick from other things he had but it’s too personal to put here.
I miss you terribly Ralph and I promise to continue taking care of your mom and brother I love you 💕 Rest In Peace my dear brother in law. Thank you so much for taking care of us we’ll be okay.
❤️hi am so sorry girl for what happened may he rest in peaceI hope he rests in paradise. Stay strong he will always be with you!! ❣️
I am terribly sorry for your loss, my boyfriend just lost both his grandparents and I honestly don't know what to do. You can't really say much in situations like these because no one really wants to hear anything, just silence, and peace.
You guys helped him so much in so many ways most people close themselves completely and don't try to help anyone. Thank you for sharing this, a lot of us need to appreciate our lives and live. There are people dying and their families hurting.
It will also show people to stay away from those things, everyone turns to that at such a young age and they don't understand how much it's killing them from the inside.
I know you might not want to hear this at the moment. But, know that he's in a way better place happier than ever finally at peace no more demons haunting him he's at peace surrounded by so many angels. He will always! Watch over you all when you need someone he'll be there even if it feels like your talking to the air your not he's there and God is right behind him.
Death is horrible but beautiful. He wants you all to live your life and not be sad he wants you all to be happy. He will love that clock so much, and he loves you for always being that best friend! It's hard I don't understand but, I can imagine. I also know you can get through it, you are strong remember that! I'm sorry that I can't say much or I can't do much, but I will always be here for you! Were all here for you!!! If you want to exchange emails let me know, then we cann exchange numbers.
Stay strong love, I believe in you! God bless you and your family you will be in my prayers🦋❣
May his beautiful soul rest in peace may he fly high in the sky.🦋💙🖤