Did he cheat? Should I stay?


Question

okay so my bf I went through his snap and seen him asking some girl for nudes and i asked him about it and he told me the truth that yeah he just wanted nudes to have them and it made me feel less than bc he wanted something from another female and he lied to me about a question when I asked him if he ever liked a girl and ik not that big of a deal but like it's the principle of the fact and so basically I was super angry and sad and still am and I just wanna know like is that cheating and should I trust him? he said he would never do anything like that again bc he wouldn't want to hurt me but now the trust is gone  so I'm just confused. I've gone through his snap everyday since that has happened which was 3 weeks ago and have found nothing but I still feel like he's being sneaky. he knew I had trust issues and didnt care he should've never been asking another girl for something like that. were long distance which makes it even harder for me and I just wanna know should we continue dating should I trust him and did he cheat? mind you before he left Az we had been dating 2 weeks.

Jhene Reives · Accepted Answer

Girl. Im sure you probably feel like you should stay but from personal experience you should never stay with a guy who cheats the trust will always be questioned and it will always be on your mind you told him you had trust issues and he still didn’t respect it. I’ve gone through something similar and the longer you stay the more you get attached and then ur always worried until something like that happens again. But do what you think is best for you girl💛

Quinzel doe · Answer

Hey grace ! This is my opinion and my point of you love at the end of the day it's your road to take.  Hun yes that's cheating , I know sometimes we don't want to see the truth because we don't want to get hurt . But sometimes we have to , so we can better ourselves.   Love liking another female while in a relationship is a big deal love. This is going to be in experience for you and a big one . Love you deserve way better noone and I mean noone should ever be cheated on.  I understand you completely on trust issues in this world that is tough to find in someone. He crossed that line and disrespected you. You need to see your worth and know that you don't need no boy like him.  It's so true there is plenty of fish in the sea you just have to be patient tell he comes your way. Take the time to love yourself very important and key! Your beautiful always know that never ever ever feel less because your so much more than that.  Head up crown up baby girl things we'll get better , remember we are all here for you ! 💛