okay so my bf I went through his snap and seen him asking some girl for nudes and i asked him about it and he told me the truth that yeah he just wanted nudes to have them and it made me feel less than bc he wanted something from another female and he lied to me about a question when I asked him if he ever liked a girl and ik not that big of a deal but like it's the principle of the fact and so basically I was super angry and sad and still am and I just wanna know like is that cheating and should I trust him? he said he would never do anything like that again bc he wouldn't want to hurt me but now the trust is gone so I'm just confused. I've gone through his snap everyday since that has happened which was 3 weeks ago and have found nothing but I still feel like he's being sneaky. he knew I had trust issues and didnt care he should've never been asking another girl for something like that. were long distance which makes it even harder for me and I just wanna know should we continue dating should I trust him and did he cheat? mind you before he left Az we had been dating 2 weeks.
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Hey grace ! This is my opinion and my point of you love at the end of the day it's your road to take.
Hun yes that's cheating , I know sometimes we don't want to see the truth because we don't want to get hurt . But sometimes we have to , so we can better ourselves.
Love liking another female while in a relationship is a big deal love. This is going to be in experience for you and a big one . Love you deserve way better noone and I mean noone should ever be cheated on.
I understand you completely on trust issues in this world that is tough to find in someone. He crossed that line and disrespected you. You need to see your worth and know that you don't need no boy like him.
It's so true there is plenty of fish in the sea you just have to be patient tell he comes your way. Take the time to love yourself very important and key! Your beautiful always know that never ever ever feel less because your so much more than that.
Head up crown up baby girl things we'll get better , remember we are all here for you ! 💛
Luv, I never been through what you've been through but to me its cheating because 1 if she sent them he is looking at her body instead of focusing on his wonderful girl he has in Az which is you and 2 if he has them for just him what do you think ye would do with them now I'm not accusing him of anything I'm just saying what if that's what's happening it's just a theory if you wanna talk more about it here's my number 2109146125 and if you dont have a phone here is my email jaslynhrnndz@gmail.com we can talk any time you want.
Hey love, the emotions you were feeling and still feeling are totally normal and you deserve better from him. He made a commitment when he got into a relationship so to go behind your back and ask for nudes is wrong. Once a guy cheats its going to be hard to trust him. Whether you want to leave him or work with him to build back up that trust is up to you. You know him better than any of us. If you feel like he’s being sneaky try to watch him more closely but from a distance if that makes sense. You don’t want to end up being to pushy. Since its long distance it will be harder but try and talk to him more and if your comfortable let him that it still does bother you what he did. If you want to talk more let me know !! :)
Grace stop apologizing! Honey it's okay love your sharing your story and where here to help so stop apologizing!
Your so welcome I'm here if you need someone to talk💛
I know it's hard hun and I don't want to force all this on you but I also don't want you to get hurt. What I've learned from giving others experience is really it's up to the person at the end of the day. It hurts to see y'all sad even if I don't know you girlys.
I just don't want any of you going through what I did but we all go through our own struggles and we get through it. When people gave me advice in the past I wish I would have taken it but again I wouldn't be were I'm at if it wasn't because of my mistakes.
It's your road to take love and we are always here to listen and to help. You got this okay and one day you'll find a right man. Solamate is out there just not the right time yet. Be patient and learn to love yourself before loving anyone else mija💛
I believe in you and I'm proud of you for reaching out to us ! 🌻🦋
Im sorry to hear that. Yes, it is classified As cheating. He shouldn’t be asking any other girl for that kind of thing nor any other when your in a relationship. He says he won’t do it again because he doesn’t want to hurt you, but... what stopped him the first time? He knew his choices and yet... still decided to hurt you. Honestly it’s your choice to stay in the relationship. It does take time to earn trust. The question you should be asking yourself is- Since your the only one who knows him. Do you think he’ll do it again?
My opinion- You deserve better:)
Hi girl❤️ Okay first of you deserve so much better if he’s doing that kind of stuff it’s better to move on if he loved and cared you he would never ask another girl and just know never think too low of yourself because you are beautiful and YES IT IS CLASSED AS CHEATING
Girl. Im sure you probably feel like you should stay but from personal experience you should never stay with a guy who cheats the trust will always be questioned and it will always be on your mind you told him you had trust issues and he still didn’t respect it. I’ve gone through something similar and the longer you stay the more you get attached and then ur always worried until something like that happens again. But do what you think is best for you girl💛