Soo...me and this dude ended almost 3 months ago ive move past it even though im kinda still stuck with it this dude i lasted the longest with i was close to his sister before i met him she 10 years older than me she was family to me and my family... whenever me and him had problems he would go to his sister so all she would see is a broken relationship instead of talking to me about the situation he ended our relationship because of his sister who knew me personally that i will never hurt her brother and i was heartbroken his ex texted me sending me screenshots with conversations with him and i was so confused he talked alot of crap about me he said i was toxic and i never let him go out when in reality i always told him keep your girl friends go out and have guy time with your friends and he said no i rather talk to you and you only so i said ok and left it at that but when it came down to me i had to let go of my guy friends because of him and i had to stop seeing peope out of respect for him cause that what he wanted i never talked shit about how many times he hurt me i always made hiim loo like the greater good person and he made me look bad i still have love for his family and for him even though he did me wrong and in my part i know i wasnt smart in sum decision i took in the relationship with him idk if it bad that i still have hope for me and him and the future and maybe right person just the wrong timing idk if it wrong to wait for someone knowing he texting a bunch of other chicks and you over here looking like a fool...i still have hope and faith with him i love him from a distance and still but yeah..
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Hey love, first off welcome to the community!
You are not dumb take that out of your head we make mistakes and we learn from them.
Of course, you will always have a love for his family, you were always so close to his sister which is not bad. It's also not bad that you still have hope for you two, but take this time to love yourself. Take the time to heal, that way when and if you guys find each other again you'll be prepared.
This all might not make sense and you might not want to hear this, but eventually, it will make sense. Don't wait for someone that has hurt you also people do change but not all. I know you still young you still have a lot to learn, have fun, and live your life don't stress out for a boy.
That is also a big red flag him not letting you be free but you letting him, that is not right at all. You are your own person no one should ever keep you locked up if someone loves you they wouldn't do that. Trust and loyalty is key my love.
I hope this helped a bit, im sorry if it didn't I am not in a right place right now. But I saw your post and I just wanted to lift your spirits as well as letting you know that it's going to be okay and you'll get through it trust me you will.
We are all here for you never hesitate to reach out hun, if you want to talk more let me know!
Have a good night or morning stay safe and God bless baby girl 💛🍂