so i started talking to this guy 6 months ago, going into it we both said we were gonna be friends. he had just gotten out of a 3 year relationship a couple months before and i had just lost my mom to copd. so friends is what it was until we actually started hanging out and spending every day together. he said and did things to make it seem like it was a relationship, we had even talked about being together so that’s what we did. then one day out of nowhere he decided we just be friends again but would still come over cuddle, kiss me, stuff like that. confusing right? so just the other day he posted a picture and this girl had posted a picture and it was the same hotel room?? so of course i freaked out and said something but he told me im not his girlfriend, he can hang out with who he wants, that he’s not gonna be with this girl. but i just don’t know what to do at this point? i just feel played, hurt, not good enough for him. sorry for the long post, i just wanted to share.
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Drop him babe.. he's leaving you too the side like you're just some booty call. He's not going to change. He's the type of man to want "options". Don't let any man make you feel like you aren't good enough. Your more than enough. You deserve to be with someone who puts you and your feelings first. I know it hurts. but if you ever want to talk privately my instagram is @ stunninarii ! I wish you the best love 💕
DROP HIM
if he plays with you like that you should drop him, if you stay he is gonna think its OK to do that when its not and he will continue. see something happend to me like this so i had a best friend and i had known him for 3-4 years, we had a thing idek what it was a few times and i told him i liked him at least once a year. then i told him this year and he said he was not looking for a relationship but then an hour later he posted his ex and some things about her on his story. and so i told him i didn't want to be friends anymore he said he agreed 100% and that made it harder that he just wouldn't fight to have a relationship with me. so i got over him and called it a day and in the words of my other best friend if your fake in the end you were fake from the start, i think that you just have to tell him that you dont like the way he made things so confusing and just tell him that if you wanna be friends we can. "IF THAT IS WHAT YOU WANT NOT HIM" but we cant be doing all this confusing stuff but my best advice is just drop him, that is very toxic and you are strong you can be strong and yes its going to be hard in the beginning but you will get over it much love.
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Girl if i were you I would say Fuck Him like that a dick move but i feel you that happens to me when i fall for the cute boys that i think actually like me they always end up cheating on me or something like that. Just know your not alone and you are more than enough never let anyone tell you different and he was just to stupid to realize it. Keep your head up high queen!
girl honestly don't think that of your self we are all perfect in our own way and if he doesn't see that its his loss but just give it some time bc all us girls know how boys work they either stay or they leave but trust me if he wants to be with you and you want to be with him ya'll will find each other in that position maybe hes not sure what he wants yk all you can do is be there for him and when the time is rights you'll find your way to him or he'll find his way to you just don't ever put your self down like that your an amazing person, do i know you no but ik for a fact your amazing bc you joined this website and it shows you wanna help people and you also want the help others stay strong girly.😇