Me and this guy have been friends for almost a year. He gave me his number and we texted. we have become closer. I started liking him but never told him. When he texts me he always responds quickly. I feel like he May like me back just from what he texts me and tells me on ft. We used to ft For hours and text. Just 2days ago tho He seemed distant. He was calling me names (mean names), he took hours just to text ONE word, and I confronted him but he denied everything. He’s not the same person I stayed up talking to. He’s changed. what do i do?
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Hey love, reading this i just want to say you don't deserve the disrespect at all. It's clear that the reason he gave you his number is cause he thought you would fall for him instantly. It's important to wait a little bit longer before you tell him that your feelings towards him are growing, and you want to be more than friends. Just know some guys can be clever by entertaining you to get a reaction and also to see if you're an easy target. Trust me it's better to play hard to get and not letting him know that you want to be his girlfriend for a while cause he may take advantage of you. The fact that he disrespect you is not acceptable .My advise to you is to let him be! ignore him for a few days and also let him know that being disrespectful is not it! You are so much more than being treated like dirt! Being disrespectful while not in a relationship is the first red flag of a toxic relationship. I hope you the best and really want you to find the one for you sweety! ☺️❤️ Always keep in mind that you are enough and deserve the world! I Hope i helped you in some way, so much love princess. ❤️❤️❤️ If i helped you in some way feel free to dm me on ig @deozaanrendeann if you need someone to talk to or listen, I'll be your online friend. 🤗🤗
Hey I'm so sorry that happened to you and I know I'm late for giving you an answer but its because i haven't been on here because I felt like my problems weren't important and were just dumb so I didn't make any more post but then I decided i needed to stop putting myself down and open up about myself and stop being shy ...I'm not good @ advice but I can try although i dont know what to say...I would say try to find out out what's really going on from a friend of his or just push him out of your life or try to ignore him or make him jealous then he would eventually come out and tell you what's been going on with him but who am I to tell you what to do...be yourself and dont let anyone hold you back💙
Hey girl , im not the best at advice but if you definitely see a change then you should talk to him and tell him that it’s making you feel some type of way. if he has been disrespecting you, its not okay. I just feel like there has to be a reason why and maybe you can try to get an answer why . also if he doesn’t stop disrespecting you by calling you names , he Doesn’t deserve you to stay through all that.I hope everything turns out fine ❤️.
Hey love, let him know that you noticed a change in him. If it is bothering you let him know. Name calling is very childish and disrespectful don’t take that lightly because he shouldn’t feel comfortable calling you out of your name. Other than that if you have feelings for him depending on how the conversation goes take things slow. If you want to talk more let me know !! :)
I think you should attempt to have a mature conversation with him about how you feel and hope he opens up to u and if he doesn’t that is okay u can’t pressure him. But if he calls u names he may not be someone that u need in ur life even tho u might not want to hear this.... cut the negative energy out of your life !!!