So lately today I've been upset. I started thinking about everything me and my little brother have been through. So my mom was in a very controlling relationship and he got my mom hooked on meth. And a lot of stuff happen in 2019. And I got me and my brother away from it we moved five states away, and my mom isn't with us but she isn't with him anymore. When me and brother got to my grandparents I found out he had meth in his system and if we would have stayed longer he could have died. A few days ago we had planned on writing letters to our mom and I tried helping him, he broke down in tears because he didn't understand anything, why we left mom. And it's been hard for me because I've tried so hard to be positive and I have but when I talk to my grandma about it or I start thinking, I break down. And today I just have been watching tv and got in my feelings. But the good news is I'm changing into a better person. I just wanted to put this out here because I know a lot of ya'll are putting stories on here and I'm not, so I'm just putting a part of my story out for right now.
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Hey love, you are a great person and I’m proud of you for trying to become an even better one. Sorry to hear about you having to leave your mama. Everything happens for a reason so try and look at life that way and your being such A great role model for your brother. You are a great role model please continue to hold your head up things will get better love. If you need anymore advice let me know !!
I understand how youre feeling. I have not gone through this but it haunts you in a way. You made a smart move to pack your stuff and leave. Idk how old you are but maybe ask your grandma to take you and your brother to a therapy type of thing if you are willing to do that. If not, I know it hurts but talking and breaking down is okay. you talking about it will release all the thoughts and feelings you have on that situation and sooner or later you will be okay to move past that. It won’t hurt you.
i am proud of you for doing everything you can for your brother. have a great week
Give your self a pat on the back hun you've gone through alot , and you being strong for your little brother is just a plus. Know that it's okay not to be okay it's normal for you too feel sad were human. Keep being there for your little brother your such a grate sister and talk to him it's okay if you get emotional again were human. You don't always have to say your story were all here to hear you out and also we can be patient whenever your ready to talk about your experience. For example, id like to tell you girls about my experiences but I'd rather help you girls out. I'll try my best to understand and help. Stay strong keep thinking positive with a positive mind anything is possible. Always remember God puts you in situations for a reason because he knows you can get through it! He is still young hun so give him time he well understand and you we'll be there along the way. And I bet you've always been a good person you've just experienced things that made you grow and learn , So head up crown up and keep going babes 💗
You are so strong and I haven't gone thru the same thing as you but I don't have my mom because she passed away. I have two little sisters and I have talked to them about what happen to my mom. It obviously hurts to tell them but its better to tell them now since they are young. You have to be strong for him and for your grandparents as well. Im living with my grandparents too and im soon gonna start working even tho im only 15. I want to be able to be a mom figure to my little sisters when they grow up.The advice that I give you is to talk to him about it but try your hardest to not cry. If theres a certain topic you dont want to talk to him about but say " Im not sure or I don't know" Im here if any❤️
Wow u are an strong girl and u should jus talk to ur brother abt it and let him know u are there for him no matter what.😘😁