On August 27th 2020 I lost my brother in law Ralph at the young age of 37 to the horrible addiction of alcohol 😭, he got to celebrate his last birthday with family unfortunately I had to work and couldn’t be there I did text him to wish him a happy birthday. He was not only my brother in law but my best friend we shared the same zodiac sign (Virgo) we had so much in common and I loved him, he loved me as well. We both loved art that was one thing we can go on and on about. Even when his brother my husband would get into lil arguments, Id go complain to him about what I was so upset about and what do I do then he’d talk to me to calm me down. His nick name for me was “the Little one” cause I’m short. He had such a huge heart, a beautiful caring soul to anyone he met he’d lend you money if you really needed it. He cared so much about every single one of his family members and friends. especially his family he made sure everyone had food and was taken care of.
The present I’m getting him didn't come in on time 😕 for his birthday its the Clock that was made from the Salvador Dali painting The Persistence of Memory we were talking about it and he said that he regretted not getting that clock at a certain store so I looked it up and found it and his face lit up so much he was like that’s the freaking clock 🤩 so I decided to buy it so it can come in for his birthday and it’s barely coming in tomorrow August 30th 😕 Im still going to give him that clock I’ll put it in his casket so he can receive it in heaven.
Ralph fell prisoner to the horrible addiction of alcohol 15 years ago. After getting clean from certain drugs. We always tried our best to help him steer away in any way possible but he knew he was too late. He was sick from other things he had but it’s too personal to put here.
I miss you terribly Ralph and I promise to continue taking care of your mom and brother I love you 💕 Rest In Peace my dear brother in law. Thank you so much for taking care of us we’ll be okay.
❤️hi am so sorry girl for what happened may he rest in peace