hey my loves! i wanted to share my past experiences on here to serve as an inspiration to anyone who may need it! in every single one of my past relationships (3), i have been cheated on and i always thought “what am i doing wrong?” in reality though, i was doing absolutely nothing wrong, i was completely faithful and loving to who i was with and always gave them my all, i was just choosing to be with the wrong people. i want to shine light on my last toxic relationship. it lasted about 2 years but i am so glad that is behind me. my ex was a liar, like he lied about EVERYTHING! from family, to his job, to where he went to school, literally everything. when i found out all of that, i was so hurt but i also felt sorry for him and i wanted to help him (i’m always that person trying to fix broken people). while i was in that relationship, i also got very sick out of nowhere and almost died, but thank god i was able to overcome that. being sick took a big toll on my life - i stayed in the hospital for about 6 weeks and took about a year after that to recover. anyway, the lies he told me were not only about his life but he also cheated on me. not once, not twice, but many MANY times. he even met up with a girl from another state, while i was in the hospital, and cheated on me. (like WTF!) i found messages from at least 50+ girls he was talking to, while being with me!!!! he broke me. then on top of it all, when i confronted him he manipulated me to make me seem like a crazy person. but guess what? i left his ass, took time to be single and find myself, finished school and got my bachelors degree, landed a job in my field and found the love of my life. i am 24 years old now, happily engaged and have a 15 month old son. i have definitely been through a lot but the best thing we can do for ourselves is boss up and keep moving on. i know it hurts, and you will cry and be so heartbroken. but trust me, the best thing you can do is get away from any toxic relationships and bad energy around you and watch how amazing your life will become. sorry this is sooo long but i’ve struggled for so many years and i want to show that no matter what you go through you can get through it and it will get better <3 have a good day loves!
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Hey!! Thanks for sharing you are very strong and successful. Keep doing you!!!
Your so welcome babes 💗 thank you I appreciate it! I know I wouldve wanted someone to read mine, it's good to know I'm not the only one that wants to make the world a little better !
YASSS PROPS LOVE 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 ahhh reading this made me smile and almost cry!!! I relate to you in so many ways. This is why I always say things happen for a reason.
I'm so proud of you for writing down your experience takes guts and so many females need to hear this in a generation like this! And also for letting go those toxic relationships now your so happy!
CONGRATULATIONS ON THAT BACHELOR DEGREE!!, I can't wait to get mine !!!
It must have been hard I know it was but you got through it and became stronger and everyday you become even stronger ! I'm so sorry about your health and I'm glad your so much better !
It's okay trying to help broken people I always do that too I just want to see everyone happy wish I could help the whole world out but we can only do so much. You felt bad instead of hating him and that's awesome !!! Never hate love harder !
Thank you for this means alot we are all here for you whenever ! Crown up head up your amazing hun! God bless you and your family 💛