hey guys i'm andie, so i wanted to tell you guys about my story. it has been really hard in my life because of bullying and relationships with people. i feel all alone because all my so called friends are never really there for me. they will tease me and just say they are messing around but i know they aren't and they just feel bad. i am also struggling very hard with self confidence as i'm sure you have to. there are guys who have physical hurt me for revenge and whenever i speak up all they get is a warning. i am so tired of being left behind, forgotten. i feel like i will never be enough for people, all they do is use me. there is this guy a year older than me i'm going to be 17 and he just turned 18. the start of my sophomore year he texted me and said he liked me, we talked for months but he never wanted to ask me out. he would never talk to me in person and it seemed like he was embarrassed even tho most of his friends knew about us and they liked me too. i told him he was the only one that i would never choose his friends over him. he said he loved me but then went behind my back and started talking to my so called friend. he kept telling people he didn't know me and so i ended it but i still had him on my mind, my feelings for him can not just go away in a day i fell in love with him and he took advantage. i started dating this really cute guy named Adam and it was going good for a month in a half until the guy texted me and said he was sorry that he loved me and he promised we would be together that everything will change. so i started to cry and doubt myself on who was the better choice, it was Adam but i chose the other guy because he knew all my weaknesses and the right thing to say to get me back every time. i am always his second choice and i'm tired of it. how do i properly move on i can't stop thinking about him. i feel abandoned by all my friends and anyone who claims to have feelings for me. i can't help but wonder where i went wrong or if there is something wrong with me. i have tried to hurt myself multiple times because of him and bullying, i can not tell my mom or dad because i don't wanna be a burden or ruin my chances of anything in the future. i want to trust my self but it is really hard. i cry myself to sleep a lot, almost every night. so i am trying to get a job to get my phone i only need a 145 dollars so it won't be long and i am really hoping this place will help me make the right choices in life and make great new friends.
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Hey love im kinda going through the same thing as well and I would love to help you out email me sarahxgarcia5@gmail.com remember your not alone you have the jerzigirlssss but email me and let grow a friendship keep your head up and rmember i would love to help you out🌺so dont be shy and email me :)
thank you so much for your kind words i would love to be your friend but i dont have a phone until later on this year i will do my best to take your advice
Hey Love! Firstly i just want to say YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, UNIQUE, ENOUGH, PERFECT AND A MF QUEEN! 👑👑 You don't need to be accepted by people to k ow your worth and how beautiful you are! The world can be vicious and that's why we have to make ourself feel better and be better without the opinion of others! If we were given the chance to make ourself the way we wanted we would but God made us the way we are and to him we are to die for! 💕💕Head up queen your crown! Secondly, fake friends, dang! sadly in today's live that's the most common thing any teen experience, backstabbers, two faced people also attention seekers ( those who pretend to be your friend to find out more about you just to go tell others and bring you down and making you feel worthless ) Let me tell you this, in reality no-one is really your friend, you are lucky enough if you find that real friend who got your back no matter what! Those who claims they're your friend but when you need them they're nowhere to be found! At the end of the day your family are the only people who really got your back and you can trust! Never feel like a burden when you only want someone to listen and to talk to! You need to get this things off your chest cause it's already leading to you hurting yourself! If you are getting bullied you need to talk to someone or even type it down in your notepad. You are young and it's okay to not have your life planned out already! There's so many things you still need to experience good and bad but it's those things that shapes you in the beautiful, strong and independent human being! If you ever need someone to talk to dm me @deozaanrendeann on instagram, i would love to be your friend and help you where help is needed. Now coming to the boy! Girl let me tell youuuu, if he wanted you in the first place and liked you like wanting to be your boyfriend like, he would've let it be known and not be ashamed of you. A guy who really likes a girl will let her know how beautiful she are no matter what the people say! The way he act can be very toxic for starting a relationship cause it's clear that he will only take advantage and use you as his entertainment button. No man are worth you tears! Don't leave a great guy who loves you for who you truly are and aren't ashamed to be seen with you! Block and delete him on everything and start focusing on you and your well-being love! No man are worth thinking about especially if they don't deserve YOU, your TIME, your LOVE and THOUGHTS. so much love princess , stay safe and take good care. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Well first of all I completely know what you're talking about I tend to get so attached to the wrong people and I I understand it can be so damn hard to let go. Know your worth pretty girl. Get help from your parents and I know it would feel super hard to tell them but once you have them on your side you wont feel as alone. It sucks not having friends to go to ik I basically have none. I wish the best for you and that you can move on. eventually you will it takes time and healing. Keep your head up beautiful💖
Love your energy @Ricki Thomas
Hey love, keep your head up and stay positive. Happy that you will be able to get your phone soon. If you ever wanna talk let me know !!
Ok thankyou do u want my number right
Heyy if you need someone to talk to /friend dm me on insta @ mxxmiri_ .
I know how you feel. Keep
your head up💕.
How could I forget ahhh, bullying just know there jeloues the more you ignore it the more they well see how it doesn't get to you. Bully's are kind of your bestfriends stand high head up and face them. "Kill them with kindness hun" I always say never hate love everyone that has done you wrong love just spread love and peace. Hate won't do anything only add more fire. You really only live once we never know when it's our last day. So head up live your life trust and believe things we'll get better life is hard if we had an easy life we wouldn't learn hun 💗
Andie I can relate to you in so many levels , it's so hard to find good friends now in days you want to talk to someone and trust them. You want someone that doesn't judge you or laughs at you. Friends well always come and go and each one well help you in a bad way and good way and Boys are honestly a waste of your time we really gotta live our life a good man we'll come but we are so inpatient. We see everyone have boyfriends and girlfriends that we want that. Honestly though do we need that no I feel that we don't . Of course we learn from them so much and grow stronger from what we experience. You feeling like a burdon or not enough is not it ! You are worth so much you just don't see it yet. We are here for you jerzi did this so we can all give a push and that's what we well do. Arleth is so right I always say no matter how "bad" your parents are apperiate them because not everyone has parents I don't have a dad and that affect me so much I looked for love in boys love that they can't even give me. Let me tell you self love and family is the only real love out here. We really gotta stop relaying on boys. You are so young hun go live your life find yourself talk to your parents. We make mistakes and that's normal, if your having to choose between the two boys that shouldn't even be a thought because do you even like any of them if you really have to choose? Hun find yourself and forget about boys the right man we'll come be patient. We are all here for you okay ? But also remember we can only advice you , you take the steps hun . Head up okay things we'll be okay alright keep that crown high and we got you !💗
Heyy about the guy thing I honestly think you should block him on everything. Thats the best you can do tbh and if he knows where you live then just let him go and look for you but dont go outside or even pay attention. Its obviously going to be hard but trust me it will work out. Im just going to be honest with you and tell you that you are doing wrong on not telling your parents whats going on with you. My mom passed away and I honestly wish I had her here to talk to her about everything that goes on with me and for her to give me advice and help me move on. My dad I don't communicate with him and it really hurts me too because I hear my friends saying that they wish they had a different dad or that they never even had a dad in their life. Now that you still have both of your parents talk to them, ask them for advice , go out to eat with them, basically just spend time with them and talk to them because trust me your parents are the only people that will always be there for you no matter what. If you mess up yes they are going to be disappointed but at the end of the day you are still their daughter and they still love you. You can text me on instagram @xo._arleth and i can help you out a lil bit more