Its been a while since I was on here due to family problems, school, realizing who are my true friends, another miscarriage 🥺Yes I look happy in that picture but I'm really not...😭deep down I am really hurt and heartbroken. On June I felt the need to call my dad after 4 months of not communicating with him and ask him if he could come to my grandparents house because I needed to talk to him and ask for his support. He came on fathers day and I gave him his gifts and I thanked him for everything that he has done for me. I was so nervous to tell him how I felt because I was scared that he might yell at me or get uncomfortable. I told him that I didn't like the way that our father-daughter relationship was going and that I was giving up on myself because I have been trying for about 2 years now to have a better relationship and he was not doing anything to make the relationship better. He is married and his wife is the one who doesn't let him come see me. I honestly think that so wrong of her because if they were divorced and I was the only one living with my dad, and I told him that he cant go see his other daughters she wouldn't of like that and would obviously hurt her. When I was done telling him how I felt I then told him that I was pregnant and that I needed his help to sign a paper I needed for the doctors since my grandparents cant sign because they haven't adopted me even tho they do have full custody of me. He then started telling me that he wasn't going to help me with anything that I should've thought about the consequences before I did that and tbh he's right but the guy that got me pregnant was going to help me as well, that same day that I told the guy that I was pregnant he started looking for a job, he sold 20 pairs of his sneakers (he only stayed with 5 pairs of sneakers)and he sold a chain that cost him $350 I told him that he didnt need to do that but he begged me to just let me do what he tought was good for the 3 of us so I left him even tho it did hurt me that he had to do that because he had to go all the way to NYC from El Paso Tx to buy it, and had only had it for 3 weeks. After he told me that i was so hurt and i felt like i had nothing to do there anymore but then when I was about to get off his truck he was like wait I need to talk to you still so I stayed. He then stayed quiet and was just starting at me and started crying and was like "Im sorry for the way that i just acted but its cuz your mom was also a teen mom and she struggled a lot and i don't want you to go thru the same stuff as her, and I also have to tell you one more thing." So i was said ok tell me and he started of with "I don't want to hurt you or be mad at me but...when you were born your mom told me you weren't my daughter but idc because you will always be my little princes. I then looked at him and started crying and got off the truck I had so many stuff to say to him but i didnt want to start going off and be rude to him. I then came in the house and i went straight to my room and was crying for 2 hrs nonstop. Now I know that my mom would've never done something like that to him or anybody in general and if she did then it must of been because he did something to her. Now if it is true I wonder why he had to wait 16 yrs to tell me this why couldn't he told me before my mom passed away that way if he wasn't my dad i coulve had a clue about who my real dad is. I also got to thinking that people have asked me if I'm Dominican & Mexican, Black & Mexican, Puertorican & Mexican,or something mixed with Mexican but i say no because my dad is fully Mexican, and my mom is a latina so that makes me latina too. I was stressed out the 2 weeks after that and my baby daddy was there for me at all times, he would talk to me and make me feel better, he would cheer me up, he would take me out to get food and we would drive around, so that i wouldn't be stressed and stress the baby out as well. I had my first ultrasound on July 6 and on July 13 I woke up at 4am and was bleeding a lot and called my grandma, my aunt, and my baby daddy they then called the ambulance and took me to the hospital. At the hospital then told me that the baby had no heartbeat and needed to take me up to a room(I was in there for about 2 days until they let me out). Im no longer with my baby daddy but we became best friends and he has still been there for me while I still go thru everything with my dad like he's been going court with me, he went with me to the Paternity place to do the DNA test, and nothing is weird we both are still the same person, we still talk to each other, my family is always inviting him over for get togethers, for Sunday dinner,and trips. I hope some of you guys can understand my story and I will be getting the results in about 1 week so ill be updating you guys. Thank you #Jerzigirls🦋💕
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Hey luvvies I am so sorry that he don't support you but I am always here if you need me and I wish you the best of luck to rebuild that relationship with your father because eventually he will be very proud of all that you have overcome and all the obstacles you have faced in your life and I wish the happiest healthiest life for you and your baby😘have a good day loves I hope u feel better
i'm sorry to hear that girly stay strong and if you need anything welp theres a lot of us here for you so contact any of us
I'm so sorry like I feel so bad for what u went through if I could I would give you a hug and tell you that things will get better eventually no matter what imma be here for you and we can talk please email me jaslynhrnndz@gmail.com and maybe we can talk and become close friends I will always be here for you and I'm hally that you and your baby daddy got closer and nothing changed between yall after yall broke up that's how you know yall have a bond no one can break I'm so proud of you pushing your way to the end to be happy your very strong 💙
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Hey babes!! I havent been on this in forever. AWE babes im so sorry! this is so much, an dyou shouldnt have to deal with this. Im proud that you decided to confront your dad about how you were feeling, and tbh at least you got an answer even though it was a sucky one. Im sorry about your baby too but it brought you closer with your baby daddy. I wish there was something I could do to make you feel better. Virtual hugs being sent your way. I love you sis and know that you are strong!! YOU GOT THIS BOO !!