So basically in 8th grade I went through on of the hardest years of my life and I'm still trying to through it to this day. I thought 8th grade year was going to be great I made the cheer team and was ready for all the games and pep rally's, but towards the middle of the year things started to take a huge turn. A couple of my what i thought good friends decided to start huge drama. The 2 girls basically started slut shaming me and putting around the school that I would go to boys houses after school and do thing if y'all know what I mean. It got so bad to the point were the principles of the school started pulling me from class to ask if what they were hearing was true. It also got to the point were they called my parents and let them know everything that was being said. Now mind you my family really strict on me so they knew exactly where i was at all times because of a parental app on my phone that allows them to control my screen time and location and everything like that. So I basically lost all my friends that year and was left by myself to deal with everything which put a lot of pressure on me. The few people that still talked to me I knew were being fake and just trying to get things out of me but thanks to my major trust issues I not really ever open up to anyone or talk about my feelings to anyone. The year was really hard and I couldn't wait for the school year to be over so I could get away from everything and every one hoping that things would calm down by the time my freshman year started. Summer came I just kinda stayed home all summer didn't do much. Freshman year started and I was excited thinking everyone forgot about everything and everything was calmed down but I was wrong. The year started everything was going okay didn't really have friends so I was still kind of by myself just doing me. Then the rumors started coming up again but this time it was both boys and girls starting things. Boys started saying I would do things with them in school and girls just added on to it by slut shaming and body shaming me again. So I was right back to were I was in middles school, but luckily for me I'm the type of girl that doesn't let what people say effect me or I'm really good at making it seem that way but deep down it does hurt me and make me feel extremely bad. All this stuff was going around about me that I'm a hoe and all this. I never really let people see that what they were doing was phasing me because I wasn't going to let them win. Luckily this whole covid-19 thing hit and I didn't have to go back to school with all the toxic people, but covid only made things worse. All the sudden a bunch of boys are texting me and trying to f*ck me just because the image that has been put up about me everyone thinks I'm easy and will do anything with anyone all from some lies that went around. I guess basically what I'm trying to say is I don't really know what to do at this point all this stuff that's been said about me just makes me eel horrible and I don't really know what I'm suppose to do I feel like I'm reaching my breaking point. Covid has really shown me who my true friends are and it's literally only one person and I don't want to put all my stuff on them because they already go through so much on there own so here I am asking jerzigirls for help.
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Hey love, wherever you end up your going to have people that dislike you. Ignore the hate it may take time to do so but nothing that comes out of another persons mouth that’s negative should bother you because it makes them ugly and its a reflection of them. Some people will try to make you feel bad about yourself because they aren’t confident enough try too leave these harsh memories in your past because its not something you want in your future. Try to turn the negative into positive energy. If you want to talk more let me know!!
Hey Leah , Mama's you have no clue how much I can relate to that mostly what all of you gone through I've been through and knowing that makes me feel that I'm not alone.
First off breathe remember that it's going to be okay I'm proud of you for letting this out and to people that actually well try and help. I was always called a hoe and so many other names.
I couldn't walk the hallways or sit down without guys saying rude things to me. Even when id ask for help they would usually take the other person side. Anyway things sadly won't stop but if you ignore it like you keep doing it we'll go away.
Your the type of person not to let things get to you and that's amazing I'm not like that one bit and I wish I was. Honey things feel like you can't take it anymore your world feels way to heavy but HEY YOU GOT THIS!
trust me I know how this feels and especially not having friends but we are all here for you . You can count us and we well try to help love ! I know it's hard to stay positive or even ignore those harsh words.
But you know who you are let them talk your obviously important to them and they want to find something to pin you down. They know it won't get to you each hit they throw at you dodge it with your strength. Most of us can't take it and do the worst.
I'm proud of you to keep going friends come and go understand that I know it's hard and you don't even want to go back but you so young you still have so much left you we'll meet new people always ! Stay In school okay. I wish I did and ignored all the hate
This is life we well always have haters but we gotta love them too kill them with kindness baby girl! Anytime you need someone to talk to where here.
Stay strong Mama's put that crown up and keep going ! 💛🦋🌻
Hey beautiful I went through something so similar my 8th grade year a girl started a rumor that me and this boy did a lot of nasty things and everyone started believing it. I learned to cut them all off and ignore it. It’s kind of all you can do because only you know you and you know it’s all fake. it sucks but the reality is that People are fake and will start rumors for no reason but stay strong and keep your good friend close.💛🦋
Girl you just gotta ignore all that. I've been slut shamed and looked at as a hoe bc of rumors too and it sucks it happened mostly my freshmen year too but I'm a junior now and all that has passed. I get that it sucks and then guys are only wanting you for one thing but you have to know your self worth and not let everything get you. The people that are being rude are just insecure and immature and as long as you know in your heart you arent doing anything wrong then that's the best you can do for yourself. drop the fake little friends that you got and either surround yourself with more positive and nicer friends or just dont have any at all that's where I'm at rn I dont have much friends but honestly it's been better like that just focusing on me and yes it can get lonely sometimes but in the end those fake friends wont be down for you ever if they arent now so just forget them and do you beautiful💖😘