I was in a relationship for a year in a half. He was different from the beginning of the relationship and started to change. He cheated, lied, hurt me with his choice of words to call me, a manipulater, no communication and so much more. I don’t miss him at all, I’m glad im out of this relationship but I still get sad. Im sad because of the things he did to me. How could he love me and behave this way? I try not to let the things he did and say get to my self esteem but at times it does. I want to feel okay and happy. Some days I’m okay and then some days I’m not. How do I move on? I’m totally not ready for a new relationship but I just want to move on if that makes sense. Sorry this post is so long :/
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hey girl, i can relate to you as i have been through this in my past. i believe if someone truly loves you, they will never do these things to you. i also believe in whatever is meant to be will happen. you sound like you’re on the right path and deserve so much more than what you’ve been through. keep pushing and focusing on you babygirl. time helps heal all wounds. it’s only up from here, stay strong and true to yourself. everything in your life will begin to align, take what happened to you as a lesson learned and something that has made you stronger <3 hope you have a great day!
Hey girl. I bet this felt terrible. But only a second into reading that I can just tell I deserve so much better and none of it is ur fault. Remind yourself everyday that it’s his loss he lost a beautiful ass girl. I always like to thing that my soulmate is out there and when I meet him this dude will be a joke to you and you will think why did I ever let him bring me down and you’ll be treated like the queen you are!
Hey love, never blame yourself for what a person did to you. It’s not your fault. You tried your best and that’s all that matters. It’s going to take time to heal and that’s normal. You have a whole support system here for you and I’m proud of you for speaking up because getting it off your chest is a very important step to recover. If you want to talk more let me know !!
Hey sis, i can relate to this- ours was same thing. It was really hard for me but then everytime i saw pics or even thought of him instead of missing those times i thought of the times he would hurt me. Te times he would make me feel so low and it made it easier for me to get over those times. You move on at your own pace, itll take time sis but its when YOU are ready for it to be over. Until then remeber that you are worthy and a real Queen!! and a real QUEEN doesnt deserve to treated in such ways and that theres better people out there worth your time
Hey Briana it's okay let your heart out that's why we're here !:) I understand , I was in a 2 year toxic relationship and I moved on way to quick after Wich didn't help me at all. My advice too you is find yourself I say this alot because it's true you really have to love yourself before loving anyone else. This takes time and patience but I believe in you and you should too. See your worth don't let those boys words get to you , I really do advice you to learn how to let go breathe and again do things you like think positive talk to your support system. But let go let your wings out and fly hun, holding on isn't it right now the past is still affecting me and it affects me with having friendships and relationships because of how much people have hurt me. Try not to think about it and if you do tell your self STOP get your mind off of it. I am also glad you got out I'm proud of you hun :). It's so hard getting out of a toxic relationship. I hope this helped hun , Head up love and we're here for you crown up and stand high ! Have a great day God bless 💗