Okay hi guys I just need to let this out. I have been in a one year relationship and it was my first ever one. I just want advice on how to stop thinking bout my ex. Like some days I’ll be happy and then the next I’ll be upset and be moody and I’ll cry myself to bed thinking about him. But really all I wanna do is just move on and be happy
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luv,
i understand what you’re going through. I wasn’t in a year relationship so you have it harder. I was talking to this guy for months and all of a sudden he switched up and left me without an explanation. I cried about him. The group here made me realize that I deserve better. im much happier but he lives right across from me so whenever I leave I always see his house and I just fall apart. My point is. There really is no getting over bc every ex you have, you will always bring with you because you learn something new in every relationship. You will fall apart at times but that’s part of the process. if only we could snap our fingers bc that would make life easier. sadly, we can’t. What we can do though is focus on ourselves. yes we will be happy one day but maybe the next your not. That’s okay. It just means your one step closer to healing. Stay strong luv 💗
hi love! i know going through heartbreak and trying to get over someone is veryyy difficult! it’s okay to feel the ups and downs in your emotions but i am a firm believer in what’s meant to be will happen. i have been in past relationships where i thought that person was my forever and now when i look back at that? i laugh at how silly that thought was. we always feel like we can’t move on or it hurts so much but you can do this. to distract yourself from overthinking, do things that you love and make you happy. hang out with family and friends, try something new, try to meet new people. it will all work out in the end! stay strong and keep a smile on your beautiful face. one day you will look back at your experience and look at it as a lesson learned and it will no longer bring you pain but wisdom and guide you to finding your true self and what you want <3 i hope you have a great day!
You have no idea how much I relate to this. It has taken me a really long time to get over an ex. an embarrassing amount of time. But you shouldn’t be ashamed. What helped me personally the most was finding self love I’m sure you hear this a lot but it’s so important. Loving myself made me realize I deserve better and I dis everything I could do for him and one day I’m going to find the love of my life and it’s going to be so great that I’m gonna forget all about him and be happy.
Hey love, its going to be hard to get over your ex and you may think about him here or there and that’s normal. An easy way to start getting over him is to know you don’t need him to be happy and start focusing on you and how you can better yourself for your future and who’s next. Everything will be fine. There’s healthy and unhealthy things to do when getting over your ex know the difference and take your time. If you would like to communicate further let me know !!
Hey rumaysa , I've been there before. First off know that it's going to be okay, you have to learn how to let go I know it's hard but you can do it. Think positive this is a new relationship take a chance. Thinking about the past can ruined lots of things. So try to let go that's good your letting it out breathe relax and Know that it's going to be okay you got this ! Crown up head up were here for you hun 💛