Heyy Jerzi girls. ❤️❤️
I didn’t know how to really start this. It’s hard to even talk about this without crying. November 15th, 2019 my sister who was 24 took her life. I’m 23, and she was my bestfriend. We’ve both struggled with mental health issues since we were preteens. Depression, anxiety etc. I have a daughter who is 3 years old who is now one auntie less. It’s been months but it is still hard. I feel like her leaving me amplified that shared sadness we had because now I have to go through it alone and she was the only one who understood how I felt. I don’t really know where this is going I just really miss her and am dealing with a lot. I feel like my depression is ruining my life with my boyfriend of 6 years & holding me back feom being the best mom i can be. i want to be healthy for them for myself, but it’s like anything that can go wrong DOES! I’m just looking for advice on how to deal with a loss so close to home, how to stay positive, push through, and remain strong. #jerzigirls
Hey Jayjay , I can't really relate to losing someone but I'll try my best to help. Remember that she didn't leave you she's still there with you through everything. She wants you in this world to live it as much as you can, I know it's hard you want to be happy for your little girl and your man.
Also be happy for you let them be your insperation your strength. Especially your beautiful little girl she looks up to you , your her hero. Depression is so hard to get through we all go through it and we can also get out of it . We are human and being sad is normal , we tend to forget that.
Distract yourself I know it's hard with everything going on , do activists with your baby girl go outside . Just get your mind off of things, I know it's hard going through so much. You can do it I believe in you.
When you start to think negative tell yourself "NO STOP". You are beyond beautiful and so strong always remember that.
We are here for you always even if we are different ages and go through differnt experiences , we can all relate in some kind of way.
Stay strong baby girl stay safe , stay cozy and God bless you and your family. 💛✨🦋( She's a beautiful angel looking over you when your about to give up she picks your crown up and gives you a push , she loves you!)
i can understand to loss. I’m so very sorry.
Remember,
You’re NOT alone. your sister is with you even if you can’t see her. Trust me she sees you. She would want to tell you that she wants to see you smile again. She wants you to continue life. Be there for your daughter. Let your daughter know how much her aunt loved/loves her and that no matter what, her aunt is ALWAYS looking out for her. Grief is a difficult thing because it makes the loss of our loved ones real. We grieve, and we grieve, and we grieve but, we need to pick ourselves up at some point. It’s okay to be upset. To miss. To Cry. Its all okay. Just know that no matter how alone you feel in the world, you have a daughter who looks up to you. You have a boyfriend Who’s stuck with you. You especially have your sister, who wants you to be happy.
Your sisters in a better place. I believe she is. I believe she’s happier then you could EVER imagine. She wants the same for you!
Much love ! 💗
Hey, so sorry for your loss. Stay strong your sister will always be with you. Be strong for your daughter and I’m here if you ever want to talk💕